Over otak2 and heaps of teh o ais limau yesterday, the discussion centered around "re-evaluating friendships".

So yeah, the idea got tossed around and debated ever so heatedly. The initial suggestion was to sit down and thrash out the following;

1. Have you benefited at all from being my friend?

2. Have I ever been a bad friend?

3. What can I do to add more value to our friendship?

4. Is there anything you want to change about me?

5. Is there anything you think I should continue or stop doing?

5. Where do you see our friendship five years from now?

Are we willing to openly discuss these questions with friends closest to us?